Thursday, November 25, 2010

Reflections on a Basketball Life in Turkey in the 1970's

Besiktas Teammates, 2009

Besiktas, 1975

Turkish Champions, 1975
When I got my teaching job at Robert College in Istanbul, Turkey in the spring of 1970, I was living in Honolulu, Hawaii, halfway around the world, and I had no idea how this would change my life. Like most Americans, Turkey was just a name on the map, exotic and unknown, just west of the ‘civilized world’ of Europe. All I knew about Istanbul was gleaned from a National Geographical magazine, with pictures of Robert College and the Bosporus. That and the thought that I would be living in Europe was enough for me.

Four months later, I found myself debarking from a 747 with my family, at what appeared to be a used warehouse, old, run down Yesilkoy Airport in 1970. We were met by a fellow teacher, dumped our bags into a 1950 American car, probably a Chevrolet, and set out for our home for the next seven years, the Robert College Campus in Arnavutkoy. Though teaching brought me to Turkey, and I loved my students and teaching experience at RC, the opportunity to play basketball for Besiktas and represent Turkey in a number of European Cups changed me more than I ever could have imagined.

Before I talk about Besiktas in the 1970’s, let me fast forward for a moment, to the fall of 2009, when I returned to Istanbul for five weeks, for the first time since 1977 when I left Turkey. Istanbul of the 1970’s was like something out of a Charles Dickens’ novel, crowded streets, decrepit buildings, aged yalis, masses of villagers, freshly come to the ‘city’ from the East. Shacks of gecicondu filled the hillsides along the Bosporus, as Istanbul was beginning to change, from a city of two million when I arrived, to one of almost 20 million today. It was a city that I grew to love, mostly for what it lacked: television, suburbs, supermarkets, shopping malls, Bosporus bridges, name brand products, family cars, modern transit (mostly buses and dolmus), and tourists. I loved it for its people, their hospitality, it’s outdoor markets (I would shop at the Besiktas market every Saturday), the bakkal (Mehmet, in our village, who would save us Sana when there was a shortage), the bread, the Bazaar (with its rugs, kilims, copper, and jewelry), the still green, undeveloped Asian side and of course, the magnificence of the city of Istanbul, what I considered the best kept secret in the world, a city without skyscrapers, of slender, pencil-like minarets, framing the evening sky. This was the city I knew and loved. Imagine my shock when I returned in the fall of 2009…the city was unrecognizable. Suddenly the city of Dickens had become something out of a futuristic novel, as seemingly endless cities of high-rise apartments, office buildings, and superhighways filled the once green hills along the Bosporus, the city streets packed with traffic to rival that of any great city in the world. No more dolmus’s, but trams, no more bakkals but chain stores, no more densely packed streets with small shops, but malls, like Istinye, which rival any in the West. Now cruise ships filled the ports, tourists roamed the city, new hotels dotted the landscape, and restaurants were filled till all hours, and Beyoglu, lived once again, with Turks and tourists alike, eating and drinking, listening to music. Turkey had joined the 21st century and Istanbul had become one of the great modern cities, for better or worst and now faces the daunting problems of any developed nation: environmental concerns, population growth, and the modern politics of polarity.

The beauty of playing basketball in Istanbul in the 1970’s was that most of us played because we loved the game. For a few, perhaps a Zeki Tosun and later an Erman, basketball was their only job. But for the majority of the players on Besiktas, for Ates, Hursit, Battal, Fehmi, and me, we all had day jobs. And the beauty of basketball at that time was that it was not ‘big time’ like today’s sports, where every hour of the day is spent planning, practicing or playing the next match. For us, we had an hour and a half practice three times a week, perhaps four if we had a big game on Saturday. It was manageable and fun, a respite from our workday. No one practiced twice a day, every day of the week, like many college and pro teams do in the States and Europe today. I consider myself fortunate to have played at this time because basketball was fun, and I played for the joy of it, not the money. I assume an Allen Iverson plays for both: his love of the game, his reluctance to give it up and, of course, the money. I envy him the cash but feel sorry because he will have missed the days when basketball was not as serious, where it was still a ‘kind of play,’ unlike today where it often means big money, for both players and teams. How he fares in Istanbul is problematic. If he has grown up, if he no longer needs his posse, he will do well. In other words, if he has grown up, he might thrive with Besiktas. Certainly, he will be the hub of the team, the celebrity, and a place in which he thrives. But whether he adjusts to life in Istanbul, so different from the life he’s been used to, one has to wonder. There’s no doubt he’s at the end of his career; whether he can keep it alive for another few years is the question that will be answered in the next few months. I wish him well

Like any new experience, the first year is the most memorable. I remember playing basketball one afternoon my first month in the RC college gym, when a Turkish player, Ates Cubukcu, asked if I would be interested in playing for Besiktas. I really had no thought about playing; in fact, I didn’t even know there was a basketball league in Turkey. Eventually, because of him, I met with other players, team managers, and obviously, other teams had heard about ‘the American basketball player,’ so I talked with a couple of other teams as well. But I liked Besiktas, especially the players, all who seemed friendly and really wanted me to play for Besiktas We celebrated my decision to play for Besiktas by going to the Cicek Pasaj, indulging in the traditional Turkish fare: raki, garides, arnavut ciger, and kororci, all new to me but the Cicek Pasaj became one of my favorite eating spots in the city.

For the first eight months in Istanbul, I had no car so each evening, around 5:00, after a day of teaching, I would walk down the hill from our apartment on the RC campus in Arnavutkoy, wait for a dolmus, and take it to Taksim at dusk, with the sounds of the muezzin in the air. I would then walk to the Spor ve Sergi Sarayi change in the chilly locker room, and practice with our team. Then, around 8:00, we would take a quick shower and head home. I still recall the walks back to Taksim with teammates, stopping to buy chestnuts from the vendor, or a tost and ayran or boza from the kiosk. Then, waiting in line for the next dolmus, I headed home to the village and a 15-minute walk up the RC campus hill. It still remains what of my favorite memories of Turkey. This all changed when I got my Volkswagen Van, but I still miss those days of dolmuses, walks to Taksim, the smell of chestnuts on a fall evening.

Most of our practices, to my surprise, were much more training than playing. We did lots of endurance drills, sprints, exercise without the ball, which to me seemed like a waste of time but that was the coaching philosophy when I arrived, not that the coaches were not good. Cavit, Aydan, and Battur were certainly successful, the equal of coaches in the States. I can remember a friend, in his 30’s, who played for Kurtulus telling me that they did duck walks at the end of every practice! Anyways, as the years changed, practices changed, too, and by the time I took over as player/coach, strategies were beginning to change. My major contribution, I believe, was to bring what I called the motion offense or the passing game to Turkey. Up to that time, most teams had set plays, which they worked on and tried to run in the game. I became a passionate devotee of the motion offense through Bobby Knight. When I brought it to Besiktas, I was met with some resistance, but eventually, as time went on, the players became more comfortable with moving without the ball, trying to help your teammate get open, and reacting depending on what your teammates did. Today, teams seem to have both set plays as well as a motion offense, but back then, it was a revelation.


My first game for Besiktas was unforgettable, to put it mildly. As I mentioned earlier, I was a fairly naïve, apolitical American, knew little about Turkey, and just wanted to teach and play basketball for Besiktas, a team and fan base I knew little about. Thus, I was really excited to play my first game. As we ran on to the floor, to a packed Saturday night crowd of mostly male fans, I was met by chants of ‘Yankee Go Home! Yankee Go Home.” Needless to say, I was flabbergasted and had no idea why they were chanting, why they considered me a Yankee. I just wanted to play basketball. After the game started, the fans got into the game and stopped harassing me. I did just ‘ok’, and we lost that first game. After that night, the chanting rarely happened, but I will never forget this rude initiation to playing in Turkey. And I might add, by the end of my tenure, the fans were calling me Mustafa, cheered my every move, and had clearly taken me to their hearts as one of their own. Perhaps my proudest moment occurred during a European Cup match when the Greek team came to Istanbul. As the Greek team was introduced, they were booed loudly. And, of course, when Besiktas was introduced, we were cheered but the loudest and longest cheer was saved for when I was introduced. That remains a great moment, the knowledge that I had become Tom Amca”, an adopted Turk.

As for Americans playing in Turkey, I was not the first but I was the only player who played more than one year for the same team, Besiktas (I played for seven). Each year either a Fenerbahce or Galatasaray would recruit another new American player, usually a fringe player or renegade because they would have been playing in the ABA if they were really good or Italy, where the real money was. I remember the first year when the American player for Galatasaray supposedly had a problem with the law in the states, though it may not have been true. Usually, the Americans were black, from intercity backgrounds, with not much interest in Turkey, Istanbul, other than playing basketball. I had little contact with them, perhaps because I had a wife and three children, and they were single and hung out mostly in discos or clubs. I do remember Willie Williams because he played for Galatasaray the year we beat them in our final game for the Turkish Championship in 1975. He was actually a good guy, easy going and fun to be with. The previous year he had sat on the bench with the Boston Celtics, so everyone was talking about this great NBA player who was coming to Galatasaray. I had heard this story before and I considered myself the best American playing in Turkey, so his coming really motivated me, to not only outplay him but also win the championship. We played each other early in the season, and our duel was a stalemate and to be honest, I don’t even know who won. But our final meeting was going to be for the championship, and I wanted this game more than any I had played in, for the fans, for the team, but also for my pride. For the three weeks prior to the game, with Williams and Dogan, Galatasaray’s great guard in my mind, I would go out on the plateau behind our school after basketball practice, and run laps around the track, in the dark, mentally and physically preparing for the match. When we eventually met, I can only say that I was so ready that I can hardly remember the game, especially the first half where I played in a zone, the only way I can explain it. I felt as if I couldn’t miss, everything seemed effortless, time slowed, and I ended up with 19 points at halftime as we had a huge lead. I eventually ended up with 24 points and we won the first and only Turkish League title for Besiktas. It was a great win for the team, for our fans. And although I don’t remember it, I still have a copy of the newspaper, with a picture of my teammates carrying me on their shoulders around the Spor ve Sergi Sarayi, a memorable night.


Some may wonder why I coached for a year and a half, eventually relinquishing the coaching reins to Battur. For me, the dilemma seemed to be this: if I played really well, my coaching and the team strategy suffered. If I worried about coaching and team, my playing suffered. This went on until I realized that the team needed me more as a player, and having someone else coach would better for the team and me. It proved to be a good move because I enjoyed playing for Battur.

At various times during my seven years, the Besiktas team ended up having a camp outside of Istanbul to get ready for a big game, the season or the European Cup. We trained once in Manisa, once in Bolu, and once in Plovdov, Bulgaria. Our first camp, in Manisa, was the most memorable, perhaps because it was my first year. I had never really been in a small Turkish town before, so for me, it was a window into a culture in Turkey. Most afternoons we would practice, but in the mornings and evenings, we were free to roam the town, see if there was anything to do (no), and spend time in tea houses sipping chai and playing tavla or konken. For many of the men in this town, it seemed that’s all they did. We were not really recognized by the townspeople except for the few fanatical fans, who would come to all our practices. The highlight of the day was to attend an outdoor movie, in the center of town, watch films in Turkish and eat pumpkin seeds, a true art form as I discovered. For me, it was an interesting sojourn and look at Turkish life, for my teammates, it was an exile from the big city. Bolu was much the same, though there was no town nearby, we hardly saw the lake, and all we did is practice and sleep in our motel. I do remember one thing about our stay, the fact that Bolu was known for its cooks and it was the first time I tasted kaymak (a thick (cream from a water buffalo). Because I was so enamored with, I was served it with every meal, whether breakfast, lunch or dinner.

Istanbul, 1974
One of the most memorable moments of my career was also the scariest. We were playing bitter rival Fenerbahce and my wife and three children, all under six years of age, came to watch a game. As usual, it was a heated contest, with fans insulting each other. It was midway through the first half when there was a commotion in a corner of the Besiktas stands where my family was sitting. Smoke began to rise from the floor and it looked like a fire. The fans, without thinking about themselves, immediately picked up my children and passed them upwards and back, from fan to fan, until they were safely in the corridor. It was an amazing thing to watch, my children being passed like dolls to safety. Interestingly, the fans knew this was my family, that I would be worried, and immediately took action to make them safe. Only in Turkey!

My most disappointing loss was in the European Cup, to Romania, by one basket.  If we had won this match, we would have ended up playing in a four-team tournament with Italy and Russia, which would have meant two things, a chance to eat and shop in Italy (leaving Turkey was like one big shopping trip for the team since Western goods were hard to come by at that time in Turkey). In fact, whenever we flew out of Yesilkoy, the entire team would give me their dollars to hold, as the limit was 200 dollars per Turkish citizen. I still have Czech crystal that I bought in Bucharest. The other reason for wanting to win was to visit Russia, while it was still the Soviet Union.  Anyways, we had gone to Romania, played pretty well, but fell apart in the last few minutes allowing them to beat us by at least 15 points, meaning we would have to win by 16 points in Istanbul to move to the next round. Unfortunately, despite the home stadium, the rabid fans, the referees (who were wined, dined, shopped for by the team managers), we won by only 15 points, on a last-second shot, failing to advance by one basket, a terrible loss for our team and fans. Turks are nothing if not fanatics about their national teams and we let them down.

As a good but not great basketball player in the States, I grew and matured as a player in Turkey. Most of my career, I was unselfish, considered myself a team player, enjoyed passing as much a scoring. But in Turkey, it was clear I was expected to score and a lot, as I soon found out.  And I could, I discovered, as I led the league in scoring the year before our championship season and set the single-game scoring record of 69 points, which I held until Erman broke it about ten years later. One of the unexpected benefits of playing, I discovered, was that this ‘unknown’ basketball player from the US became a celebrity in Turkey, recognized as BJK’s Tom, from Istanbul to Trabzon to Adana. This I never expected though I have to admit I enjoyed being recognized. I attribute my celebrity to two things: one, television had just been introduced to Turkey in 71’ or 72’ and everyone watched it, even if there was only one channel, even if it was a Besiktas basketball game. Thus, I became a familiar face and, of course, I played for seven years. Secondly, I was easily recognizable, a tall, exotic, wild looking b-baller, with an Afro, beard, and slightly turned up nose. Clearly, I was not a Turk and I stood out where ever I went.

My teaching also benefited from my playing for BJK.  My students were always asking me about our team, came to our games, and followed the team avidly.  Some played for the BJK genc team, and I was lucky enough to coach many as well. What I remember most, however, was during my first year, when Robert Academy was still an all-boys’ school.  On Tuesday afternoons, the entire Lise II class would meet in the lecture hall for testing. Whenever it was an English exam, I would head towards the lecture hall and as I entered, I was serenaded by 100 Lise II students singing, Boom Ba Lachey, Boom Ba Lachey, Boom Boom Boom. Siyah, Beyaz, Champion. What a way for a hodja to be welcomed to an exam! I still keep in contact with a number of those students, all who played basketball at RC and in Istanbul: Sami Basaran, Muharrem Kayhan, Hasan Teoman, Refik Soyer, and Serdar Aral, now all successful businessmen and professors.

My only major regret is never having learned Turkish.  I made excuses that I was too busy that first year, with both teaching and playing but I could have found the time.  I just did not realize how important it was until too late.  This lack made it more difficult for me to fit into Turkish society. And my teammates were mostly that, teammates, and we did not socialize much off of the court.  For one thing, all of them were single, and I was married, with three children, thus our interests did not intersect. We would occasionally go out to dinner with their girlfriends, or would we would have the team over to our house for dinner, for a barbecue, or even one time, for New Year’s Eve when, to our surprise, one of my teammates brought a TV.  Because television had just arrived, no one wanted to be without a television on New Year’s Eve.  But because of the language and cultural barriers, it was difficult to become fast friends.

I do vividly remember my friendship with Ismet Badem during my first year. He was very interested in getting to know me, and we always hung out together on trips, though he could only speak Turkish and me, English. He invited us to his tiny apartment for dinner, a couple months after the birth of his first son, Bircin. Despite the small apartment, modest appliances, his wife had prepared a wonderful guvech for us, and their hospitality was unmatched. Both were excited to entertain us, and we had a great time. We reciprocated, of course, but felt a bit like the ugly American because their apartment could have easily fit into one of the thirteen rooms in our apartment. Clearly, as an American at that time, we were fortunate, living on a hill overlooking the Bosporus, in a huge apartment, with a maid, a car, and a lovely campus for my children to grow up on.

When my wife and I returned to Istanbul in the fall of 2009, we had no expectations, no plans, just hoped we might see some of my teammates, some friends, and generally reacquaint ourselves with a city we had not seen in 35 years. How wrong we were. Within 24 hours, Besiktas teammates Ates, Fehmi Sadikoglu, Ahmet Kurt, and Faruk Cagan had all called, having somehow gotten the number of the apartment we were staying. And that more or less set the tone for our stay. We got together numerous times as a team, and with individual players and their wives, most memorably the entire team met at Ahmet Kurt’s restaurant in Gokturk, our second night in the city. Though we had not seen each other in 35 years, it was as it had been a week. We immediately were great friends once again and spent the night laughing, telling stories, catching up on our lives, our children, and for us, grandchildren. Captain Ates took over our lives and would call almost every day to see what our ‘program’ was. If we had nothing planned, he planned something for us, taking us to shopping malls, to restaurants, shopping, to visit other sights in modern Istanbul. It was great to see Battal again, the heart of our Besiktas team and Fehmi, still coaching and passionate about basketball, just like he was when he was a younger, chasing officials off the floor for making a bad call. Few in my life have matched Fehmi in their love of the game, of coaching, especially young players. I was able to attend one of his matches, where, fittingly, he was playing Hursit’s Besiktas genc team, another teammate from that championship year.  Faruk was the playboy of the team, so it was fun to see him settled, married, with a son but just as much fun as ever.  And, finally, I got to see Zeki Tosun, who managed to come to a dinner in Sariyer, only because I was going to be there.  It meant a lot to me to see him again because he was such a great player and person. Our five-week sojourn in Istanbul ended with my being honored at halftime of a Besiktas game, for my ‘contributions to Turkish basketball.’ All my teammates were in attendance as were many older basketball fans, writers, and officials. It was another memorable day, one I will never forget.

With Hasan In Gocek
We also got together numerous times with some of my former students from Robert College, spending time in Gocek with Hasan, Cunda with Sami, Selcuk with Muharem, and Ali Can, Serdar, and Ekber in Istanbul.  We loved seeing them as well and their hospitality was unmatched.

Dinner With My Former Robert College Students
We will never forget how wonderful our return to Istanbul was, and the hospitality of all our Turkish friends overwhelmed us.  We felt as if we had no way of repaying their graciousness but we were somewhat consoled by the fact that this is the Turkish way.

Kansas City Thanksgiving

I was up early, around 6:00, to a cloudy, cool morning.  Made the coffee, let Bella out of her cage, and spent an hour browsing the adds, so many that you need the entire morning to go through them, not that I need or want anything, though they certainly are there to tempt you, with the idea of a 'deal', something we all have difficulty passing up.  Evie was up by 7:00, Marlena shortly there after, and she immediately got to work on her Thanksgiving Journal, where she writes from the point of view of the turkey,  She enjoys it, obviously, and just finished drawing a picture to match.  She has the turkey finding away to escape its fate with the help of her dog, Bella.  Mary got up around 8:00 and Tom just came downstairs, about 8:30.  Evie is fast a work on the turkey, cinnamon rolls, dressing, all the makings for today.  I hope to get a good walk in this morning before Rose and Frank come about noon.  We plan on eating a bit early, around 4:00.  Lots of football today, as usual, though none of the games are of great interest though, no doubt, we will sit in front of the tube and watch them, a turkey day habit, as if there is nothing else to do.  I wonder what would happen, what the afternoon would be like, if we just turned off the TV and forced ourselves to talk with each other.  I am sure we would play some games like BananaGrams and spend some time talking.  Because of the TV, I find I have rarely had time to really talk with Tom's father in law, Frank.  We turn the tube on and that's it till we doze off after the turkey dinner.

We had a great meal, as usual, and I am still full, of turkey/mashed potatoes/stuffing and football.  We are sitting here, playing Apples to Apples, Marlena's favorite game.  Frank and Rose left after the games, around 7:00, as Rose had a cold and wanted to get home.  Her brother, Michael, was also here for the day, a nice guy who works as a technician for Lucent.  We see him once a year, either at Christmas or Thanksgiving.  We did take pictures before everyone went home, though it was a hassle as usual, to get everyone together though the kids were more accommodating then my son, Tom.

We heard from both Beth and Jill, Beth was deep frying a turkey for the first time, and Jill was having al the Bissell's over for the first time, some 30 deep.  She seemed to have everything in order and didn't seem too stressed when we talked.  I am sure both turkeys were great, as it was here.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Morning with Marlena

Marlena and I have been up since a bit after 7:00, as I struggle to read my computer and juggle Bella and Marlena tries to write her Turkey Journal.  She is usually the first one up, some its fun to sit with her and listen to her talk.  Like me, she seems like a morning person.  We looked through her school directory and she pointed out the kids she knew.  Then, she got her journal, told from the Turkey's point of view and started writing in it.  She has quite an imagination, and she writes well, of course.  After finishing a page of her journal, everyone else got up, and now she is  coloring a picture to match her journal, and it's not quite 8:00 in the morning.  We are off to the Plaza this afternoon, to shop and eat out, an outing we manage every time we are in KC.  It's an amazing place, filled with great shops and restaurants, with a southwestern architectural theme, making it really attractive, with Spanish style architecture.  Unfortunately, I just heard thunder, and the rain is pelting the windows, a result of the warm weather moving in after yesterday's cooling off.  Let's hope it clears up for our trip to the Plaza.

Tom and I ran to the grocery store, picking up last minute items for Thanksgiving and Friday, when Tom and Mary are having the Burlingame' over for dinner.  We made it in record time, and then headed down to the Plaza to shop and eat dinner at Houstons.  I have to say I have had it with shopping already; I don't even want to walk into a store because I don't want anything and don't want to buy anything.  We walked around for about an hour or so, then went and had a very good meal at Houston's, a great restaurant right on the Plaza.  I had a great burger and beer, and Nick had the ribs, which he loved.  On the way home, Evie made us stop and CVS to pick up candy, nutty buddies, and ice cream, just what we needed after a big dinner.  I have to admit the kids were happy.  Another game is on and no movie is available that we all might like.  Evie is working on the turkey right now, making sure things are ready for tomorrow and it's only 8:15.  A foggy, rainy day outside but we had fun nonetheless.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Decorating Cookies for Thanksgiving


I was up early, just missed Nick, but got my fix of Morning Joe (without the Joe) and the web.  At 10:30, I went off and got an oil change, then came home and Evie and I walked the neighborhood for about 45 minutes.  Before the oil change, I dropped Evie off at CVS and I went to the local coffee shop, to answer my email and get caught up with reading.   I guess grandparents' night was great; Marlena took over, showed Evie just about everything, like it was her school.  Every there seems to love Marlena...what's there not to love, right.  It's nice to see her so confident, outgoing, enjoying school and the adults that are part of her life.  Quite a change from that shy little girl from a couple of years ago.

She's brought a friend home, Erika, after school, and they will be decorating cooking with Evie.Marlena had a friend over after school and they decorated cookies with Evie, something that has become a tradition.  Even Bobbie, Nicks friend came over to decorate as well.  The girls enjoy sprinkling lots of sugar on the cookies, and the star and snowflake were the most popular shapes.  i think we have pictures from years past of the cookies, but this year, we have yet to put them on a plate.  Evie usually makes the cookies in Chautauqua, so they are ready to be decorated when we get to the kids' homes.

Nick, Tom, and I went to the basketball game last night, watched Duke beat Marquette, and part of the K-State defeat of Gonzaga.  It was a nice night to go downtown, which was packed with fans, as were every available restaurant and bar.  It looks like a thriving area, all because of the spectacular Sprint Center.  Tom mentioned it was the busiest center in the country, being used most weeks, if not days.  We sat just one side of Duke fans, mostly alums dressed in blue, and among the K-State fans, dressed in their purple.  They seem just as passionate about their basketball as Kansas fans.  The people in front of us, a family, parents in their 50's, daughters in their 20's, were up and screaming, singing the fight song, die hard fans.  We had good seats, about 15 rows back,  behind the bench.  We got back about 10:00, so Nick did not get to bed till 10:30 though he was up and out of the house by 6:50.



We had lemon chicken for dinner, Tom's favorite, and watched basketball most of the night.

Monday, November 22, 2010

School Day in KC

I just walked Marlena to the school bus at 8:30, along with Bella, just like I do with Marisa in Darien, though we walked Hayden and Halle to their school in October since they live too close for a school bus.  Nick heads off before 7:00, so he is up early and out the door before Marlena even gets up.  I am back to my routine of surfing the net and watching MSNBC, something I have not done for awhile because I usually listen to NPR at the lake.

Last night I went with Tom to his basketball game at the Raytown Baptist Church, a mega church with wonderful facilities, a great gym, a work out center, a coffee shop, and a mini restaurant, all attached to the huge church, one of the largest in KC I am told. The league seemed to be more of a reaching out, as I doubt if the players, mostly black, belonged to the church.  Tom's team was sponsored by USA-800 and was made up of his employees.  They were a combination of young black players and older, slower white guys who could shoot.  It was a different league in some ways, as it was definitely a 'church league.'  Before the tip off, the two teams gathered to say a prayer and at half time, the teams sat together and one player from each team addressed the gathered players, I assume about their life and Jesus or something like that.  I was too far away to know for sure, but it seemed that way.  The nice thing about it was their was less competition, more friendship between the teams, though they did not mind 'putting it to each other,' when given the chance.  Tom seemed to enjoy the exercise, running, doing some rebounding, but leaving the scoring to the younger set.  Before we went to the game, we all went to Buffalo Wings, Nick' favorite place.  We have been their before; it's more of a sports bar, with probably 15 tvs all playing various football games.  It was a good day for KC as the Chiefs beat Arizona fairly easily.  We ended the evening watching parts of the Music Awards, mostly the Black Eyed Peas and Pink.

Tom's getting home early today and we are going to head off to the Sprint Center late afternoon as he has tickets to a college basketball tournament.  At 6:30, Duke plays Marquette and at 8:30,  Kansas State plays Gonzaga, two really top flight games.  It will be the first time I will have seen a top ten college team in action.  Nick's going as well, so we will probably come home early as he has school tomorrow.

We just got back from an attempted hike at Longview Lake, a couple of miles from Tom's house.  We could not find the trails, walked a bit, then found out we were on the wrong side of the lake.  So, we stopped at a new shopping corner, near Longview Lake and college, bought a coffee, and drove over to the other side of the lake to see what was available.  There does seem to be some trails but lots of access seems closed down for the winter, which is silly because it would be a great place to walk, hike, or even cross country ski in the winter.  We measured how far it would be to walk up to the coffee shop, about 1.6 miles but a lot of ups and downs, a good work out to be sure.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Kansas City Sunday

I'm up about 6:40 and we have to be on the road by 8:00 if we want to get to Nick's game at 9:00  Unfortunately, his team is pretty weak, so they had a tough time of it last night, as the team pressed the entire game, making it difficult for Nick's team to get the ball across court.  He has two games today and I hope the team's are weaker or it will be a long day for him and us.  Just let Bella out on a leash, as she seemed out of sorts, did not want to just settle down on my lap, but rather paced around, as if she missed the rest of the family, which is probable.  It's supposed to be unseasonably warm, perhaps in the 70's but now it may also rain.  It does look gray outside at this time, though it may just be from the sun not having risen yet.  It's strange to not have a view each morning, of the trees, lake, vista towards the hills.  Basically, I am enclosed in the house, and if I open the blinds, I get a  view of houses and back yards one way, the street, drive ways, the other.  I guess I will take Chautauqua.

We watched both of Nick's games, the first they won and was fun to watch, the second was a foul fest and they seemed tired as they lost to the same team they played on Friday night.  We came back to the house and watched the Chiefs beat Arizona, another lazy day, though it was very warm outside.  None of us felt much like being active; hopefully, tomorrow, we can get in some walks and get back in a routine of doing something active each day.  We are going to Wild Wings for dinner, and Tom has a game at 7:00...no one wants to attend as we are gamed out.

A funny story about Nick's game which Mary told us this morning.  After Nick's team lost their second game, quite badly, Rose came up to Tom and said: "You tell Nick he played a game because I know all you will do is criticize him."  Today, she seemed to have 'mother in law's regret' as she texted Mary to tell Tom she was sorry for what she said.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Kansas City morning

Up about 7:00, Kansas City time and I am trying to get in a bit of writing before Bella wants out of her cage.  She will take all of my attention when I let her out, so I am putting it off for awhile.  It looks like it's going to be a great weekend, sunny and warm, even into the 70's tomorrow.  Tom's got tickets to a college basketball tournament on Monday, so he, Nick, and I will go see Duke play Marquette and Kansas State will play Gonzaga in the Sprint Center downtown,  It should be fun.  We got in around 4:00 yesterday and Tom was home around then too, with ribs and chicken from Jack's Stack House, the king of rib places in KC and it was really good.  We then went off to Nick's game at 8:30; his team lost in the last minute, ahead most of the game, which was too bad.  It's a new team for him, with a different coach, a woman who seems pretty good though perhaps too intense.  When last week Tom told her Nick might have to miss a practice because of a soccer game, she said, "That's unacceptable."  Welcome to serious basketball.  Off to get Bella.

Went off to Nick's practice at 10:30 and while he practiced, we had our traditional trip to Costco, for Thanksgiving goodies, mostly Turkey related.  We then came home and Tom made chili for dinner, and we laid around most of the day watching Ohio State on the tube.  I guess I am still worn out from the trip because I don't have much energy.  It's been a nice day, in the 50's but none of us budged much though Evie just went off to the park.  We have another game tonight at 8:00 for Nick and two tomorrow.  
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