Wednesday, April 30, 2014

More Rain, More Clouds, More Wind

6:20
7:05
8:00 AM, Yesterday Morning
It's 7:05 and I have been up for an hour, watching the threatening morning fall like sky lighten some, as the wind howls still, at least for the past twenty four hours, the lake choppy, the temperature the same as yesterday, 43º.   I have already heard enough about Donald Sterling, owner of the LA Clippers and his racist remarks.  I thought the Supreme Court had decided last week that 'race no longer matters' in the USA!  It seems, however,  that the news outlets too often latch on to a story, and never let it go.  There must be something else happening in the world worth covering.
Walking Victoria/Woodlawn Woods
Finally, A Grouping of Spring Flowers
I was bored and antsy yesterday morning, no yoga, terrible weather outside, nothing to do or nothing that I wanted to do around the house.  So, about 10:00,  I got out my rain jacket and braved the heavy winds (a constant 20-30 mph all day) and trudged through the Victoria/Woodlawn woods.  Surprisingly, it felt good to be outside, windy and rainy though it may have been.  Just being outside is salubrious, at least for me.  Evie continues to be a good girl and resisted the temptation to stay home, went off to the gym for a workout around noon.  I  made lunch, vegetable soup and a chicken/bagel sandwich, watched True Detective, then read some until Evie returned around 2:00.
7:18 p.m.
We had decided this would be a good day to see a movie, half priced pop corn and senior rates, right, so we drove to Lakewood to see the hot new movie, Captain America, The Winter Soldier, which had gotten some good reviews.  My first shock was paying an extra three bucks for the film because it was in 3D.  It my first 3D movie since 1953 when I was scared out of my mind by Vincent Price in HOUSE OF WAX, a year later by PHANTOMS OF THE RUE MORGUE.  So, I was interested to see a modern 3D film, albeit not the kind we usually enjoy.  This was the kind of movie my grandsons would love, lots of violence, especially hand on hand contact, amazing visual effects, perhaps for us the major reason for seeing the movie.  The story was lame and predictable, the action and sounds almost too much for our minds.  The fighting was so fast, the camera moved so quickly, that it was hard to see any of the participants landing a punch.  It's definitely a movie made for the 'gamer generation,' which is what it reminded me of.  I was glad to have seen it, to see what 3D movies were like, though Evie was bored to tears through most of it.  Afterwards, we went to the Rod and Gun, sat at the practically empty bar for a beer, stopped in Lakewood to buy some Chinese but discovered the restaurant had gone out of business within the last month.  So we went to the Ashville Country Store, picked up a Cuban sandwich (called a Highjacker), the recipe supposedly from Neal, the owner of the old Triangle Restaurant, and went home for dinner.  We caught up on Stewart and Colbert, then Silicon Valley and another episode of FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS before going to bed.

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Wild Winds, Rain, Choppy Lake

7:16
7:15
Both Evie and I were up early, just after 6:00, wakened by the heavy winds, the house knocking and groaning as a result.  The weather is threatening, no fishing boats out today, with rain and southerly wind  forecast for most of the day.  Looks like it may be a 'Movie Tuesday,' with half price popcorn and drinks. It's a warm 48º, though it looks much colder sitting in my house, watching the waves.

Yoga began my day yesterday, and it's becoming part of my routine.  When I don't have it, like today, I feel lost.  What am I to do?  Class was fine, a few new twists, a result of Danielle's attendance at the Workshop this weekend.  Attending these workshops are helpful for yoga teachers, as they pick up tips they can pass on to their classes.  I skipped coffee, staying healthy and wealthy for a day, but did stop at the quarry, now open and picked up a load (four buckets) of stones, came home and spread it on my parking space,  but I still need a couple more trips to finish, though looking at it, I may never be finished since I can always use more gravel/stones.  It's one of those things like a garden, which can always use more weeding, cutting, cultivating.
The Beauty of Freshly Spread Gravel
For lunch, I had a chicken sandwich and homemade soup. watched some of the coverage of the racist remarks of the LA Clippers owner, which dominated the news on ESPN.  Then, I  went off with Evie for another doctor's appointment in Jamestown.  I read my book waiting, people watching, then we stopped at WCA for a blood test, before heading home, not an enjoyable way to spend the afternoon for either of us.  We got home around 3:00 and I was reminded of an unfinished parking  area, so I put on my work clothes and drove two more times to the quarry and I am finally done with the work.  Ironically, Evie mentioned to Shane what I was doing; he said I was crazy, he could easily get a couple of yards for me with his truck and dump it and spread it.  Next time, I guess.
The Road Not Often Taken
We had leftover pork and sauerkraut for dinner, filling and tasty, then caught up on our Sunday night shows, Mad Men and The Good Wife.  I wonder what people did before television, especially at night after dinner?  Listen to the radio, perhaps read, sit and talk?  I cannot even remember what life was like in Turkey when we had no TV, no Internet, no radio, nothing.  We did read a lot each evening, enjoying a cup of tea as we sank into our velvet chairs.  That's where I got much of my education as I went through many great writers in the seven years we lived there as did Evie.  One thing I remember is that all three children were always in bed by 8:00, no matter what time of the year, the good old days seem long ago.

Monday, April 28, 2014

"IN EVERY WALK WITH NATURE ONE RECEIVES FAR MORE THAN HE SEEKS"--- JOHN MUIR


6:27
Fat Boy Finch Hanging Out 
It's a Monday, start of the week, 6:00, light already, with mostly clear skies, some puffy clouds off to the south, a good day ahead.  It's 37º outside and at the moment, 7:00, the sun is hanging over Bemus Bay, filling our living room with its light and warmth.
The Attractiveness Of Early Spring Woods
Yesterday was another cool but pleasant day, starting with a leisurely Sunday morning, relaxing on the couches, in no hurry to do anything.  Around 10:00, we decided we needed a walk in Nature, and the closest woods would be Long Point State Park, so off we went.  It's still a very winter looking woods, bare trees, hardly a sign of budding, though the floor is beginning to green, the purple flowers of the vinca almost gone.  There is still a beauty in this time of year, just not as spectacular as other times.  We walked the major trail but noticed a narrow, seemingly newly scoured path going off into the thicket of  trees so we followed it, meandering through the trees until we had to bushwhack to get back on the trail to the Pavillion.  It was fun, might be overgrown once summer arrives, unless it is continually traveled.  We were the only ones hiking in the woods, saw one couple when we walked out to the tip of Long Point.
Overgrown Cross Country Ski Sign
New Plaque On Long Point?
A Few Signs Of Spring
We returned home around 12:30, Evie made a Sunday breakfast and we watched CBS Sunday Morning, what else.  We relaxed until mid afternoon when we went out and cleaned up our front yard where the dock and horses sat.  Lots of bare ground, leaves, twigs, the usual detritus of winter.  We filled another two barrels, as the yard is starting to shape up.

Evie earlier in the day had pulled a couple of chicken breasts out of the freezer, so around 6:00, she sliced them, then pounded them thin, breaded them with mustard and panko, then fried them.  With a salad and some quinoa (not very good because I added too much water), we had a nice meal.  We watched our usual Sunday night fare, Nurse Jackie, but forgot to tape The Good Wife, so we will have to wait to watch that and Mad Men tonight.  No big deal as we also watched Friday Night Lights and  60 Minutes, an in close look at our atomic missile sights in the northwest, supposedly keeping us safe from Russia.  Scary places, as it's not clear if we are safer with them or without them.

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Dock Is In, Bring On Summer But Brrr...It's 34º Out (Studio at Panterra, Westfield, NY)

6:39
7:43
It's 7:30 and both Evie and I are up, listening to Terri Gross interview Seth Myers from Saturday Live on NPR, waiting for Weekend Sunday to come on the radio.  I was up around 6:30 I think because the house had lots of light, so the sun might have been up but was hiding behind the clouds.  It looks like a decent Sunday, high in 50's, partly cloudy, rain holding off till the week.
Brook Myers Yoga Workshop, Studio Panterra, Westfield, NY
Well, yesterday for me was spent in Studio Panterra in Westfield, at a yoga workshop, the first one I have ever attended.  I am used to an hour or two of yoga, but this class was two three plus hour sessions, quite a bit of yoga for a day.  We had around twenty students, a number of local teachers, two other guys, two students from Eight Limbs as well as two teachers from Eight Limb. Our teacher was from NYC and studied under B.K.S. Iyengar, the founder of Hatha yoga which emphasizes precision, detail and alignment.  He was one of the gurus of yoga that systematized over 200 poses, and our teacher always referred to him as Mr. Iyengar.  Class was not much different from what I was used to, lots of different poses, a few teaching details to make sure the asanas were done correctly, and Brooke Myers, the teacher, was very helpful to me in particular because I have trouble with certain positions. We started at 10:00,  broke for lunch around 1:00.  Unfortunately, I thought lunch was to be provided but an email was sent out on Friday, saying to bring lunch but I never received it.  Fortunately, a friend from Eight Limbs and Woodlawn, Dr. Landon's daughter Julie Lescynski shared a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with me and that was enough to get me through the afternoon, which lasted until 4:30.  I cannot say I loved the day; it was interesting to be part of a workshop, meet other people, work at something for a good part of the day.  But class was not much different from what I was used to, just longer, with a couple of new asanas but one's I don't care for since they involve either a head stand or neck stand, two areas I would just as soon avoid straining.  Brooke, the teacher, was fine but I like the teachers at Eight Limbs more, perhaps because I am used to them but I find them just as helpful.
Eight Limbs Students, Lucy and Julie, with Danielle, Eight Limbs teacher (on right)
I got home around 5:15, to house filled with the aroma of pork, tomatoes, and sauerkraut, making my empty stomach growl.  I quickly grabbed a beer, some cheese and crackers, and Evie and I sat down, went over our day, enjoying looking at our dock, now in the water, ready for us to sit out on when the sun warms the day.  Lots of neighbors up for the weekend, Fox's, Miller family, and Bud and Debbi Kinney and Sons, all getting ready for summer.  Miller's also had Billy and Chris put their dock in, so at least three are in on Woodlawn.  For dinner, we had the pork and sauerkraut, with mashed potatoes, a must for me, and we watched some TV, Bill Maher's Real Time, funny and outrageous humor as usual, plus more Friday Night Lights.  We were both very tired from our day, went to bed around 10:30.
Billy and Chris, Putting In The Dock

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Vast Cloud Bank Over Bemus, Clear Skies Above (Awkward Bar Conversations Solved at Rod and Gun Club)

6:25
7:45
Up early enough to hear the beginning of Click and Clack at 6:10.  The lake at the moment is a myriad of grays, mottled in some parts, slick and calm in others, the Bemus shore fog bound, yet above the sky appears clear, the few clouds sliding north fast enough to notice. Today I am participating in a Yoga workshop (10:00-4:00) at the Studio Pantera in Westfield, featuring  Brooke Myers, from NYC, who is teaching the workshop... "Redefining The Possible: Approaching the Limbs of Yoga That Challenge Us."! Not sure what that means but I assume by the end of the day I will find out.  And for the first time this morning,  I can hear the sound of purple martins (and loons), a number of martins are gathered on a neighbors house, just one is sitting at our house.  Spring may be here. 

Yesterday was one of those lost mornings, starting with a fasting for a blood test in Mayville, which meant no coffee in the morning.  You don't realize how addicted you are to it until you are forced to forgo it for a morning.  Anyways,  I was in Mayville by 8:00, out of the there by 8:20, stopped back home for a banana and cup of coffee, then drove to Jamestown, to get my teeth cleaned at Dr. Scarpino's.  The good news, no cavities, and I have been a good boy, flossing each day, using mouthwash each morning.  After the dentist, I stopped at Tim Hortons, in Jamestown, for a coffee and sausage biscuit since I had not eaten, then drove to Home Depot for some paint brushes, then home, hoping to get a couple more loads of stone. I drove over, but the quarry was closed, surprising me, but they have had unauthorized trucks come in, so they are being more careful about keeping it open.  I will have to wait till Monday to finish.

Around 12:30, Evie left to workout at the gym, and I had guacamole and chips for lunch, with a new batch of Evie's vegetable soup.  I now have watched the first three episodes of True Detective, and I understand much better what is going on, even though main character Matthew Mc Connahey's mumbles too often, making little sense (the critics would call it philosophizing) .  Critics seem to have loved the series, more than the audience.  I was hoping to do some work out side but it started to rain, so I just relaxed, read some, took a nap.

We decided to take the night off from cooking and headed to the Rod and Gun for a fish fry.  We stopped first at Wegman's to pick up some things for dinner this weekend, then to the Rod and Gun.  It was raining of course, and both of their auxiliary lots were filled, so I dropped Evie off at the door and found a place to park 100 yards from the club.  When we got in, it was packed, to use a cliche, like a can of sardines.  I estimated 60 people sitting at the bar, another 100 at tables around the bar, another 40 standing, all waiting to be called to the dining room.  We were told we would have over an hour wait if we were lucky. By the time I got in, Evie had already bought a couple of drafts, and we stood for about 15 minutes before we found a single chair at the bar.

My New Friend, Sally Hartwig
Evie's New Friends From Warren, PA,  Cindy and Bob Garrison
So, we sat there for the next hour. I pulled up a stool and we started a conversation, first with a couple on Evie's left, Bob Garrison and his wife, Donna, who were from Warren, PA.  They drive up to the Club at least once a week.  He's our age and thinks he knows our neighbor Dave Jones, who also grew up in Warren.  The problem I alluded to in the title is that at a bar, it's always hard for me to hear what Evie and Bob are talking about, so it ends up being a two way conversation with me just sitting there.  Well, this was solved when I started talking with the couple next to me, Sally and Matt Hartwig, life long residents of Jamestown.  Sally is a teacher's aide, not sure what Matt does, but we ended up having a great conversation about teaching, hiking, life in Jamestown during the winter, the need to get away (they went to Florida for a week like us).  Anyways, after an hour, we were called to the dining room, Evie took a couple of pictures of both, and we went to eat.  At dinner, Evie told me all about the Garrisons and I told her about the Hartwigs, the problem of awkward conversations at a bar solved.  We had our dinner within ten minutes, and it conformed, alas, to my mantra 'crappy but cheap.'  We both ordered the healthy broiled haddock, but neither was very good, rubbery and tasteless.  Hey, you get what you pay for...a 7.99 fish fry.  It's much better battered and deep fried.  At least the baked potato was good.

We got home around 9:30 and both of us wanted something sweet so Evie made us sundaes, with chocolate and pineapple sauces, another healthy treat.  We watched Stewart and Colbert, then went to bed early, both of us tired from having gotten up early.  A fun night at the Rod and Gun, with our new new friends.

Friday, April 25, 2014

A Partly Cloudy Morning Sky


6:35
Framed Painting of a Chickadee by Our Daughter, Beth
Both Evie and I were up around 6:15, not able to get back to sleep.  A partly cloudy sky, warmer than yesterday, 45º, with some rain late afternoon.

Yesterday was yoga Thursday, a crowded class, one guy other than me, as most are back from spring breaks.  Class was typical, lots of longer asanas but everyone seemed to feel good after it.  I then went looking for a rust retarder at hardware stores, a liquid product to paint on my metal dock pieces to prolong their life.  I found something called Extend, which gets rid of  rust, protects against further problems.  It turns the area black but since it's under water anyways, I don't mind the color.  I tried it last year and it seemed to work.

When I got home, Evie had made tuna melts for lunch, and then she took off to work out at the gym.  I decided to watch the HBO series True Detective, a new series which we never finished because we lost interest.  I did want to see how it turned out so I have watched the first two episodes during lunch when Evie is working out.  She does not care to see it.  Mid afternoon, I picked up two more loads of gravel/stone and finally finished off my parking space.  It sure looks nice.  Now, I have to cover the other parking area, near my garage and I will be finished but will then have nothing to do.  I also worked on my metal dock horses with a wire brush, getting them ready for the Extend coating.  There's so much rust that I am only coating the areas which seem to rust through, the joints.

We enjoyed a glass of wine and cheese around 6:00.  It seems strange to have the sun still bright at this hour after our winter of darkness.  It extends the day, which is fine when it's warm outside, not so good if it's cold and rainy.  We finished up the pastitsio, with a salad and garlic bread, just like Wednesday night, still good.  And we watched the same shows as the night before, no change there.  We were both tired and went to bed by 10:30.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Sun Shiny Morning


6:37
For the first time in quite awhile, at least here at the lake, the sun beat me up.  I was up about 6:37, came downstairs and the sun was already ablaze over Long Point Bay, filling the living room and kitchen with light, a surprise.  The sun's journey back and forth, in front of our house, always fascinates me.  And since I have retired, get up early, I also pay more attention to it whereas when working, I paid little attention to it like many things I missed while working and raising a family. It's chilly out, 30º, hardly a ripple on the lake, the start to a fine day.

We were both up early yesterday and even before I left for yoga at 10:00, Evie had put together the makings for our dinner of Greek pastitisio, a macaroni and ground beef dish, spiced with cinnamon, dill, parsley, cayenne pepper,  feta cheese and to be topped with a bechamel sauce.  I left about 9:30 for class, enjoyed it because there were only three others, so we could work on asanas that involved lots of props, one that a large class cannot accomplish.  Afterwards, I stopped at the bank, the ATM broken, so I went inside for cash.  Funny how you get used to the ease of any ATM and it seems like a hassle to have to actually go into a bank, to a teller, for your money.  I stopped at the Tri James office, bought twenty dollars more of stones, to fuel my obsession.  Now, my road and part of my parking space look pristine, waiting for next year's winter when the snow plow destroys it..
Later Morning Fishing, In Sleet and Rain
When I got home, Evie had dinner finished and even made some amazingly healthy cookies (we think), with coconut oil, not butter, pistachios and walnuts, coconut, all kinds of good healthy things and, oh yea, chocolate chips.  We have not had cookies around in awhile so it seemed like a real treat to have one of two or three during the day.  Yum.  Around 1:30, Evie went off to the YMCA, had a good workout, and was home by 3:30, just as it was clearing up.  Most of the day up to that point was miserable, either rain or sleet and Mayville even had an inch of snow in the morning.  When it cleared up, I got off my couch, put on my work pants, and drove off to get another load of stones, as I am starting to spread it on my parking space.
Late Afternoon Clearing at 6:25
I forgot to mention that in the mail yesterday we received from Ohio University's basketball office, a memory book of our 1964 Final Eight Team, which was honored in early February in Athens, Ohio.  It's filled with pictures from that year, but many (taken by Evie) of that weekend, and from other weekends from the past six years when the team got together to celebrate and renew our friendships.  It was a nice touch, with commentary on the 1964 season as well as photos of some team members, their families, and biographies of what they have done with their life, how OU and basketball influenced their careers.  Needless to say, my biography was by far the most thorough and wordy, a page an a half, doing exactly what they asked, whereas my teammates included the bare essentials, a paragraph or two, a bit embarrassing for me.  If it had not been for Evie taking pictures over the years, however, we would not have had much of a Memory Book.  So, it was a surprise to get the book, especially since there was a change in the coaching staff. I expected the staff to just forget about it.  Pretty nice.

We had the pastitsio for dinner, with a salad, and I made some Parmesan toast, in the oven, which complimented the meal, giving some crunch to it.  We continue to enjoy FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS, a look as I mentioned not only at the football crazies in Texas, but it's also a somewhat exaggerated but still fairly accurate look at teenagers, their angst, their relationships with others, how their love and violent emotions spill over, complicating their lives.  We also watched American Idol, and we really enjoyed it.  Most of the finalists, at least in our estimation, are really talented and it's going to hard to settle on just one winner.   Watching contestants grow over the season is much of the fun of any reality show, but American Idol is particularly thriilling (since it's the only one we watch).

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

A Few Snowflakes Welcome A Spring Morning


8:15
It's 7:00 and I expected to wake up to a white lawn, but it's not quiet cold enough, so all we have are flurries though none are sticking to the ground.  It's 34º with a sunny forecast for later in the day, but at the moment, it looks miserable out, gray, foggy, and wet.

Yesterday was a different sort of day, as we spent a large part of it in Erie.  Evie had a doctor's appointment in Erie, at a modern, efficient third floor office, overlooking Erie's Harbor, right next to Hamot Hospital.  It was a forty five minute drive from Woodlawn, a foggy drive most of the way coming and going.  The office was huge, airy and efficient, packed with mostly pregnant Mom's, the speaker calling one every five minutes.  As I sat there, I thought about the first time I sat in a waiting room, tiny and institutional,  unlike this one, probably 48 years ago.  Evie was pregnant with our first child, Beth, the patients all white and married.  Yesterday, however, at least half to two thirds of the Mom's were either African American or Hispanic,  many of the women in head scarves, most likely from Northern Africa, many without wedding bands.  I suppose this diversity is typical in most urban medical centers, but it was a revelation to me, having lived in predominately white Hudson, Ohio, for thirty three years,  and now Chautauqua, NY, for five, though if I were to drive to Jamestown 12 miles away, it would also be quite diverse.  The waiting room was a revealing snapshot of America twenty nine years from now, according to the Census Bureau, when whites will comprise less than 50% of the population, whether they like it or not.  Living in pockets of white American like we have for the past forty years, we forget how diverse America has become, just leave any suburb and drive into a city or urban  area.  As Bob Dylan sings, 'The Times, They Are A Changing.'

After Evie's appointment, we shopped at the Peach Street Mall, at both T.J. Maxx's, and Dick's Sporting Goods, taking advantage of our trip to Erie.  No deals at Dick's though Evie found some at TJ's, not surprising.  We then spent close to an hour at the Erie Wegman's, sightseeing the amazing grocery store, much larger than our Wegman's in Jamestown. We were home by 1:30, for lunch, some Stewart and Colbert on TV, then relaxing during the afternoon.  It did clear up later, so I returned to the Tri James quarry a couple of times to pick up more stones, to finish the road, then start on our parking area.  I am becoming obsessed with transferring stones back and forth.
Tuesday Afternoon at 5:40
Long Point - Tuesday at 6:30 p.m.
It was a particularly beautiful sunset, lots of clouds and sun, shadows and light, a perfect dusk for a glass of wine.  Around 6:30, Evie put together tacos, with lots of lettuce, cheese, and of course, sour cream, a perfect, easy dinner for last night.  We watched the Academy Award Nominated Film PHILOMENA.  It was our kind of movie, an interesting story, great acting, with some humor.  Unlike most films, it avoided the gratuitous sex and violence, yet it was about sex and violence, the Catholic churches discomfort with sex, the violence of the church, the nuns, perpetrated on Irish unwed mothers, for having committed the mortal sin of having had sex and giving birth to a child out of wedlock.  The movie is another uncomfortable  look at the darker side of any institution, this time religious, where righteous, unquestioning power remains unchecked, with little oversight.  The film is based on a true story and is well worth watching.  

We have also started viewing an older series, FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS, which we started the first season back in 2006 but then stopped for some reason.  I had read the book the series was based on, by Buzz Bittinger, loved it.  I can see why this series has been mentioned right up there with The Sopranos and The Wire, as the best of television.  FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS depicts not only our obsession with high school sports, especially football, but also describes the town, the parents and their sons and daughters,  us, how we live through our children, their lives on the playing field. It's riveting, scary at times, America at its best and worst, with its emphasis on winning, being number one but at any cost.  I think we have 72 episodes to go.

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Wet and Gray Morning


6:30 AM
6:55
5:30, Monday Afternoon
Up early, because we are going into Erie for a doctor's appointment at 8:30. It's strange to have a cloudy morning; I was getting used to sun rises and clear skies, warm weather.  Snow flurries are possible tomorrow morning.

Like most Monday's, there were ten of us at yoga, lots of talk before class, then a few asanas that I had never done before, the kind that tell me my hamstrings are too tight.  Ouch.  Class was fine, with many talking about a cute yoga top one of them found at the Sahalie catalog.  Needless to say, they did not come in talls.  After yoga, I went to Ryder's, bought a coffee, and also picked up a book, just out, by a local Maple Springs resident called CLEAR SKIES, DARK WATERS.  It has gotten some press, about the author's life here at the lake after some personal and financial setbacks.  It looks like it's about her growth, her family, the Chautauqua area, and how it helped pull her life together.  Then, I stopped at Tri James, got another receipt for more stones from the quarry, and I stopped on the way home for four buckets worth.  It's getting to be my life...measuring it in buckets of stones.
Turkey Vultures Return
Evie had been busy while I was gone, did some painting, more cleaning, until we had lunch, soup and pizza and watched last night's episode of Silicon Valley, not as good as the previous two.  Let's hope it gets better.  Mid afternoon, I went back to Tri James twice, to get more stones, for spreading on our road and I think one more trip will do it.  But then, our parking spaces now look naked, so no doubt, I will be going back for more to spread on our parking spaces.  At 4:30, we decided it was too nice of a day to not take a walk, so we headed over to Bemus and walked Lakeside Drive, as it was starting to cloud up but was still warm, in the low 70's.  We walked 3/4's of the way down, then turned around because we were whooped.  Not much action on Lakeside drive, a few landscaping firms cleaning yards.  In Bemus proper, however, there was some digging up of sidewalks in front of Sklllman's and the Surf Club, quite a mess at the moment.  Lots of people were sitting on the front porch of the Seezurh House, enjoying the warm weather, a number of the women/girls in short shorts.  Zowie.
Scallops A La Evie For Dinner
We got home around 6:00 and because we were hungry, Evie started dinner, scallops in a wine/lemon/shallot/garlic sauce over linguine.  This makes our third straight night with restaurant quality dinners. We also liked the salad dressing so much from Saturday night's dinner that Evie made it again because it's so simple, 3 TBS of lemon juice, 3 TBS of Dijon mustard, and a 1/4 of a cup of olive oil.   This feasting stops today, when we get back to comfort foods, like tacos, good but not tres chic as my sister Ellen would say.

Monday, April 21, 2014

AMERICANAH: CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE *****


I put off reading this book for some reason, a big mistake because I really liked it, one of the best and most interesting reads about the African American/American African experience.  The narrator, Ifemelu, is a young women who grows up in Lagos, Nigeria.   The novel begins, however, in a hair braiding and straightening parlor in Newark, where Ifemelu goes, to have her hair braided because she has decided to give up her work as a popular blogger in the States, and return to Nigeria after a hiatus of many years.

As she gets her hair braided, she then goes back in time, to her life growing up in Nigeria, as a teenager, the family that surrounds her, the various despotic governments that often shape the families lives, and the teen age love of her life, Obinze.  When she graduates from high school, she wins a scholarship to a college in the US and at  Obinze's urging, she decides to go, which begins her odyssey in America, where for the first time, she realizes she is black.

Growing up in Nigeria, color is not an issue, but in the US, it is. We see her struggle to acclimatize her Nigeria upbringing in a different culture and what's most interesting, she finds herself alienated for a time from the African American community as well because it's so different from her African community, with different sets of customs, beliefs, even religions.  She struggles to find a job, eventually landing one as a nanny for a Mom in a very upscale community.  She works when needed, , goes to school, makes friends, and begins blogging on life in the US from the dual point of view of an African American and American African.  Eventually, because of her ties to the family as a Nanny, she meets the wives's brother, Curt, who falls in love with Ifemelu.  He is extraordinarily rich and they become lovers, and he introduces her to an entirely new way of life, upscale apartments, cappuccinos, trips to Paris and London, all things unimaginable a few years ago.  And because her blog takes off, she becomes famous, and Princeton offers her a grant, things seem to be going well. Then, consciously, as a matter of revolt,  she angers Curt by sleeping with another man.  He leaves her, to fend on her own despite her apologizes and half baked excuses.

She finds another apartment, becomes independent and  eventually hooks up with a black professor from Yale named Blaine and they live seemingly happy together, Ifemelu finally comfortable with America, the friends that surround a college campus.  Then, inexplicably, Efemelu begins to be drawn back to her roots, to Nigeria, feeling somewhat of a sell out by living the good life in the States, ignoring her people and missing Obinze, her teen love.

She decides to return, sells her apartment, ends her blog, but finds it difficult to not only adjust to a culture now foreign to her after having lived for years in the States but it's also difficult to find a decent job, even with her credentials.  She eventually finds a job working for a cheesy magazine, reconnects with her friends, but not Obinze.  For some reason, she resists meeting him, establishes herself, begins a modern blog, which becomes successful and then seems ready to reconnect with  Obinze.  They begin where they left off, great friends, and slowly their love is rekindled even though he has a wife and a child.  They both fight this passion, decide to leave well enough alone, that it's too much to expect they can live together.  The novel ends with Obinze, at her door, and she opens it and lets him in.

This book has opened my eyes more than any other to what it's like to be black in the US, how different American Africans are even though they, too, would be clumped together with African Americans because they are black.  We too easily make assumptions about Blacks without evidence, other than color

Stillness Reigns At Lake Chautauqua

6:24
6:54
It's 6:45 and I have been up for a half an hour, enjoying the changing morning sky, the sun hidden behind a partly cloudy sky but about ready to break out.  It 46º but like yesterday, it should get up to the high 60's.  The sun has just peaked through the clouds, highlighting a raft of mergansers floating off the shoreline. It looks like another good spring day.

I was up early yesterday, as Evie slept in, and I was out on the lake kayaking by 7:30, as I could not resist the temptation to get up off my comfortable couch, put on my life jacket, boots, and paddle down to Whitney Bay and back, the only fool on the lake at this hour.  Lots of ducks, especially buffleheads, and sea gulls littered my way.  I don't remember sea gulls being this prevalent so early, perhaps their presence results from last week's fish kill of white perch.  It was chilly coming back, as the wind picked up.  And I am pretty sure I saw an osprey in the trees along Woodlawn.
Kayak Morning Along Woodlawn
When I returned, Evie was up, enjoying the morning and we decided to walk the CI late morning, once she had fully awakened.  We had not walked it in awhile, and I remember the last time I walked it, before we went to Florida, and it was still icy, lots of snow, so it was a quite different walk this time, though still bland and colorless, only the browns of trees and fallen leaves.  Spring has yet to arrive here at Chautauqua to any great degree.  We almost always walk the same way, staying off the lake front until we get to the north end, coming back most of the way on Pratt, passing Hurlburt Church.  We saw few people out, either walking or in their yards.  It amazes me the concentration of empty homes for all but ten weeks of the year, which could be said, I suppose, for all the lakeside homes that ring the lake...except for us.
Daffodil at Chautauqua Institute -- one of the few
We had our big Easter breakfast, of maple bacon from Trader Joe's, fried eggs, and homemade English muffin bread.  We watched CBS Sunday morning, did up the dishes, then relaxed and read the paper. About 2:00, we found our mojo and we both went outside and worked for a couple of hours in Evie's garden, in the backyard, cleaning out leaves, trimming bushes, getting the garden cleaned up, a type of outdoor spring cleaning.  We still have little color other than the six inch high green shoots from the daffodils.  It was warm enough for me to just wear a tee shirt, and we both worked up a sweat, filled three large garbage cans with organic refuse.  It was a good feeling when we finished, to look out over the yard and see the chaos of winter had disappeared, as the rebirth of spring and an attempt to order a neglected garden has begun.
Picky, House Hunting Purple Martin Checking It Out 
We relaxed before dinner, with one of our favorite cheeses, St. Andre, and a beer before getting dinner ready.  As I grilled the two inch thick steak outside (it took 18 minutes), Evie broiled asparagus in the oven, then  sauteed mushrooms, till caramelized, then added soy and butter, for our steaks.  What a meal.  We started to watch a Woody Allen movie called SCOOP, supposedly hilarious but within 15 minutes, we were bored with Woody Allen's nonstop chatter, his tired jokes, and turned it off and watched 60 Minutes instead.  At 9:00, we watched Nurse Jackie and again, I am getting tired of her drug habit, which consumes her life.  I get it after five seasons and would like to see her change but it's not going to happen soon.  We ended the night with The Good Wife, and I finished RED STATION before starting my next book, SEATING ARRANGEMENTS, a novel I mentioned yesterday that was recommended on NPR.  I like it so far, a father is getting ready for his daughter's three day wedding extravaganza, at their tony home on an island off of Massachusetts.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

The Sun Has Risen

6:37
Easter Flowers
A beautiful morning at 6:30, as I wait for the sun to peak over Long Point, the sky at the moment a light blue, a pink tinge over the opposite shoreline.  It looks like a spectacular Easter Sunday, clear skies, lots of sun and warm, perhaps in the 70's.  We left the bedroom window open last night, so I was awakened by geese, ducks, and song birds, not a bad way to begin the day if you don't mind rising before sun.  It's now 7:30 and once I finish this, I may go kayaking because it's such a wonderful morning.

I went to yoga in Lakewood at 9:00, just two of us and Chris, the same as last week.  It was a good class, lots of warrior and triangles, not my favorite but  I am getting used to them.  Chris was very talkative, told us some about his early life, a roadie for bands like the Stones and Pink Floyd, a few years in Thailand studying yoga, and his passion for teaching the guitar.  Once you get to know more about a person, the more you find them interesting.  And if you  didn't get that initial peak into their life, you wouldn't pay much attention to them.

After a coffee at Ryder's, to round out my morning, I drove home, then went off to Mayville, to the library to pick up two books I have been wanting to read, both mentioned on NPR, SEATING ARRANGEMENTS and ASTONISH ME, by Maggie Shipstead.  I hope I like them.  After the library, I stopped at the Lighthouse, and picked up a great looking two inch New York strip steak for our Easter dinner.  Today was supposed to be sunny and warm so I felt like grilling.  When I got home, I gathered the trash and drove off to the Transfer Station, then to the Quarry to pick up another five buckets of stones.  As I was driving out, a car drove in, a women got out, the secretary from the Tri James office.  She told me they were closing  the fence because they had heard people were  driving in and taking gravel, like me, but had not paid for it.  She was fine with me, however, since I had paid her earlier in the week, an honest guy.
Molting Goldfinches
A Perching Goldfinch Eyeing Us  While Waiting His Turn at The Feeder
As you can see from our photos, we have become enamored with the goldfinches in our yard, at our feeder, especially the males, who lose their dull olive color from the winter, as they molt, the new vibrant yellow colored feathers pushing through, distinguishing the male from the female.

We enjoyed the afternoon, both in and out, did some yard work, then I went kayaking around 4:00, a slight wind, and I took my fishing rod along, wondering if I would have any luck.  I went down to my sweet spot, among the weeds, but kept getting my lure stuck until my line finally broke off and I lost the lure.  So I spent another half hour kayaking down to the campground and back, enjoying the sun, the breeze, just being out on the lake.

For dinner, Evie put together the Mustard Milanese chicken cutlets and I made the arugula and fennel salad, with a mustard, oil and lemon juice dressing.  Evie refrigerated the panko/mustard crusted  cutlets for and hour, then fried them in oil, and I tossed the salad.  We heaped the salad on top of each cutlet and had what we thought was a restaurant worthy dinner, the crispiness of the cutlet, the bite of the lemon/oil dressing, the combination of the bitterness of the arugula, the anise flavor of the fennel.  We even had a cutlet leftover, but not the salad.  We had no DVD's to watch, so we went to Netflix, searched for something interesting, and ended up watching three episodes of a series we started a few years ago but stopped called WEEDS.  We still are not crazy about it but obviously liked it enough to watch three episodes.  Afterwards, I was glad to get back to my book RED STATION,  by Adrian Magson, set in the Republic of Georgia, just after the fall of the Soviet Union.  Disgraced MI5 agents are sent there, just as the Russians are about to invade, reminiscent of what's happening in the Ukraine this past month.

Finally, I did want to mention a fascinating interview from Friday's Charlie Rose; he interviewed Obama's Deputy Chief of Staff Alyssa Mastromonaco, who has been with Obama since 2005 when he was still a Senator.  She's candid, bright, interesting, always championing her Boss, but you believe her. A great interview if you have any interest in one person's view from inside the White House.  And what was most fascinating, she never blamed the Republicans for their antics, their attempts to block anything that Obama endorsed or presented.

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Another Crisp, Bright And Shiny Saturday Morning

7:15
First Signs Of Spring In Our Yard
Awake early, laying in bed trying to figure out how early it was from the amount of light in our bedroom.  I assumed it was around 6:30 but it was really 6:08.  I should have stayed in bed.  It's now 6:50, and I am on my second cup of coffee, the sun is in full bloom over the lake, and Click and Clack are about to finish, Only A Game about to begin.  My Saturday mornings don't seem to change, except for the seasons.

Yesterday began with a special introductory class at the yoga studio, given by one of women in my yoga class, Sarah Hoffman.  She's very interested in alternative medicine though she's a radiology technician.  It's worked for her, so she wants others to benefit from her successes.  Sarah gave a talk/demonstration to about nine of us about Chakra breathing.  Those who follow this practice believe there are seven chakras or centers in our body, starting with the crown, then moving to the brow, throat, heart, solar plexus, sacrum, and root.  Each center has a color which influences it and she believes our anxieties, pains, and sicknesses, arise from the blockage of these centers.  Basically, in a simplistic way, she believes that by breathing and meditating various colors, depending on the pain and area, relief will occur.  She had us breathe in the color white from our crown, down our spine, to our root, then exhale it back through the spine and out brow.  This will supposedly clear our chakras.  It was an interesting class, probably not something I will pursue, but for her, it was important enough to share and everyone enjoyed the class.  Before the 10:00 class, I did a quick run through Wegman's, picking up food for our Easter weekend dinners.

Neither one of us had much energy.  Evie did not  feel like working out, and I did not want to hike. We both feel a little off,  perhaps a "bug"of some sort.  Anyways, we did do some work in the yard, trimming bushes and small trees, and I made three trips to the Tri James quarry, and spread the stones on half of the damp road in front of our house.  Hopefully, we will be able to walk on it without getting wet.  The rest of the afternoon we just snoozed, read or watched TV.  I had picked a recipe out of the Smitten Kitchen cookbook,  chicken cutlets with a panko/mustard coating and a salad of arugula and fennel.  So early on, Evie pulled the chicken out of the freezer, cut and pounded the cutlets and put them in the refrigerator until she was ready to cook.  Around 6:00, neither one of us felt like getting dinner ready, so we put off the special chicken and salad dinner until Saturday, and we ordered a pizza from Adriaaccios's, feeling guilty about our laziness.  I picked it up around 6:30, and we had an easy dinner.  Why we should feel guilty about following our impulses, a leftover from our Puritan ancestors.

We finished the Hunger Games (Catching Fire), and the second half was less interesting then the first.It reminded me of the TV show Survivor except that the game was to kill the other competitors. And we watched the first two episodes of a new series on HBO called Silicon Valley.  It has gotten good reviews and we both liked it quite a bit.  It follows a group of geeks, all living in a California bungalow, who come up with the 'new new thing', and it follows their journey, I assume, as they are wooed by various companies, and the main character must decide whether to sell it or keep it for himself and become his own boss.  It loosely follows the route that Steve Jobs and his buddies took, starting in a garage, deciding to build their own company, and moving on from there.  I hope it continues to be savvy, interesting as well as funny.

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